If you want to be a slave in life, then continue going around asking for others to do for you.  They will oblige, but you will find the price is your choices, your freedom, your life itself.  They will do for you, and as a result you will be in bondage to them forever, having given your identity away for a paltry price.  Then, and only then, you will be a nobody, a slave, because you yourself and nobody else made it so.

You must find within yourself the ability to help yourself, the free will to accomplish what you must.  Only in that way can you truly succeed in life.